Friday, September 3, 2010

My Testimony

Dear Readers,
This past week I haven’t been feeling like myself. Actually I was mentally and emotionally exhausted. My dream was being muted because it appeared to be conflicting with a friends dream. This dilemma really weighted on me and it basically consumed my thoughts for a week. After much deliberation I decided to Let Go and Let God. I prayed heavily about the situation and waited to hear God’s response. The next morning when I woke up I had a huge sense of relief. I could not yet put my finger on why but I felt like the weight had been lifted off of my shoulders. This post is a little long but please bear with me as I provide my blessings received the day after I decided to put it all in God’s hands.

Blessing 1:
I had a ton of emails that morning but one that stuck out was from Yakini from the Prissy Mommy Chronicles. I love her blog and often seek advice from her in regards to my blog, therefore I was anxious to see what this email would entail. I was all smiles when she offered to have my business cards done because she had an extra credit on her account. I was so excited. I had posted the image of my b-cards on my FB fan page but had not ordered them yet. She saved me about $75!!

Business card design by Julie Holloway for more of her work click here:

Blessing 2:
Same day different email account... I received several emails from "you" telling me how you loved my blog, how you can relate to the things in my life and you are happy that I use this medium to talk about it. This was such a sweet blessing. I had not yet formed any perception of my blog as it is very new. However seeing those words from my readers really had me on cloud nine. Sometimes it’s just the little things you do that can really affect a person. By sending a simple email saying thank you or keep it up, provides so much hope and clarification.
Blessing 3:
Later that day.. I was in my blogger dashboard and noticed a tab called Stats. I clicked on it and WOW, it gave my all of my numbers. From the number of page views, audience and it also gave me the sources from where my traffic was coming from. A source that stuck out to me was the Black WeBlog Awards site. I had heard about the site because I actually voted for a few of my favorite blogs last month. So I clicked on the link to check out where the direct link to my site was located. The first post on the site was announcing the 2010 winners and I sifted through them to see if any of the blogs I voted for had won. Once I got to the Best Personal Blog category, my heart hit the floor. I saw Sassy Wife Chronicles as the Judges Vote! I literally had to get up and walk away from the computer. Cause clearly I'm imagining things. 5 minutes later I walked back to the computer and it's still there!!! If my walls could talk they would literally say.. This Chick Is Crazy! (Has anyone else ever celebrated by themselves by doing a stupid dance and running around with your hands up like you just knocked out a heavy weight champion ..well ..that’s what it looked like) I did not know what it meant or who was giving the award, but to was more than recognition. It was another blessing. I had to find out more so I sent an email to the amin of the site.

First let me say I really love your site and found it by way of The Broken Brown Egg’s Blog as I voted for that blog. Today I looked at my stats and noticed I had some traffic coming from your site. To my astonishment my blog name was listed under Best Personal Blog as the judges vote. I had no idea I was nominated and recently just launched my blog so I am very new to all of this.

Could you please explain what is the difference between Popular and Judges vote. Also, I viewed the finalist several times when I voted for others but never saw my blog listed. I am very honored and grateful to see my blog on the winner post, but am somewhat confused. Can someone please explain and shed some light on this situation for me?



I've attached the graphic to this email!
The public is represented by the "Popular Vote" and the judges are represented by the "Judges' Vote". The judges are social media experts, web designers, blogging veterans, and have a general wealth of knowledge about the web and blogging. The judges choose their own picks for each category (including any of the blogs nominated during the Awards period), and their choices are weighted based on four categories (design, content, frequency, and reach). The judges submit their choices anonymously, and the blog with the majority of votes wins the Judges vote. In the case of a tie in any category, the Chairman chooses the Judges vote winner.
Hope this explains it to you!
Thanks for writing!
BWA Staff
Sassy Wife Chronicles
For a complete list of winners click hereWINNERS
Blessing 4:
Mr. reads my blog on occasion, but when he got home I couldn’t wait to tell him about the award. He knew that I was a bit down the last couple of days so he was excited and happy for me. He then proceeded to say that he is going to start a blog called "Mr...The Answer to Sassy Mahogany Wife's Blog". Now mind you he is a jokester and loves to make people laugh. I was crying/laughing when he finished talking about his blog. I can't repeat some of the things he said he would talk about but if you're married or in a relationship and sometimes don’t feel like doing the baby dance..then you could imagine the things "the Answer" would talk about. (LOL) So after his rant I asked him if he had read my last post Wife Behind The Badge and he said he was going to read it now. I let him have his moment and for the first time ever Mr. was speechless. I walked into the room and he was misty eyed and softly said "that was so beautiful sweetie." And he continued with my blessings because he actually commented on my post. Maybe small and trivial to some but for Macho man to comment on Sassy Wife Chronicles was major!

The morale of the story is this, each experience in your life was absolutely necessary in order to have gotten you to the next place, and the next, up until this very moment. Stop trying to figure everything out by yourself, pray on it and let God do his work. He will provide you with an answer whether you like it or not. So I say Thank You Lord. I got your message loud and clear. I am on the right path to serving you and fufilling my purpose.

Thank you to everyone who has helped me see the light.

I think I've talked enough and sorry it’s so long but this was in my heart and I had to tell you all my testimony.
No on can depress you, No one can make you anxious, No one can hurt your feelings, No one can make you anything other than what you allow inside.


  1. This was such a beautiful post! Isn't it incredible how when you just give it to God, rather than leaning to your own understanding, things just work themselves out?!! Mark it, Amen!

    So glad you're feeling in better spirits and like your old self!!! Hugs!!!

    I hope you and Mr. have a wonderful and relaxing long weekend!

    ~ Yakini

  2. P.S. And congrats once again on your weblog award! That's whats up!!!

  3. Sis, that was beautiful! U should've taken a pic of Mr. Macho! LOL Keep praying & seeking God & He will diligently reward you! Love you!

  4. What a sweet post! I actually saw that you won in that category a couple days ago and have been anticipating a post saying "I WON!"... and here it is!

    CONGRATULATIONS to you hun!

  5. Many wonderful blessings! I love when they come to give us encouragement. Keep moving forward & you'll see more blessings like this.

  6. Congrats to you again lady! I love this post, and I am glad you are back to your old self. Give it all to God and you can't go wrong :)

    Many many more blessings to you in all that you do!

  7. Congrats on the award - you deserve it. Your blog is honestly my FAVORITE!

    REgarding your let go let God -- I'm with you on this, and thanks for sharing your testimony was very inspirational and I took from it!

    Have a good weekend SMW and keep up the great work!

  8. Congrats!!! I just found your blog. I will keep reading.

  9. this is a beautiful post! really enjoyed reading it.

    Congrats on your win!

  10. You guys are great! Thank you so much for your feedback. I hope everyone had a wonderful holiday!! @ Sis Thank you!! I know I should of taking a picture of him but my camera wasnt charged! LOL. @ Dana Thank you and welcome!

  11. I see I'm late but Congratulations!

    I love reading about the power of the lord! Stay bless...